NextAct Notes
Twenty-five years in, and I still believe every woman deserves a straight answer instead of a guess. This is where I give you mine, written for you if you’re in it, and for the people who love you through it.
How to Make Your Weirdness Work For You
You have spent decades hiding what makes you different. Here is why that is exactly backwards and how owning your weirdness is the fastest path to finding what makes you significant.
How to Navigate Change
That chaotic, disorienting feeling in the middle of a big change is not failure. It is the adjustment stage. And knowing that changes everything about how you move through it.
How to Figure Out Forgiveness
You have been told to let it go. But you cannot let it go when it feels like it is in your bones. Here is what forgiveness actually is and the three steps that actually work.
How to Make a Change That Sticks
You have tried to change everything at once before. It worked for about two weeks. That is not failure. That is the wrong strategy. Here is the approach that actually sticks.
How to Get What You Want
You have been wanting things for years. Planning for them, thinking about them, wishing for them. The question is: have you actually asked for them? Out loud. To the person who has what you need.
Got the Disease to Please? How to Heal It Once and For All
You are not a people pleaser because you are kind. You are a people pleaser because somewhere along the way you started selling yourself out to get the acceptance you deserved all along.